Saving Marriage – Your Spouse Is Who You Are Married To
It is funny that when some people talk about their marriage and their troubles, they talk about it in the same breath as they would divorce. One of the most common reasons for a divorce or separation aside from financial /component/option,com_jcalpro/Itemid,99999999/extmode,cal/date,2060-06-01/”>otc cialis stability if the need of one spouse to change the personality of the other spouse.
Rule or Law: You can never change your spouse because you married that person as the person you were spending time with before your marriage. In short, don’t think that marriage will change your spouse, ever.
Now that that is out of the way, analyze what it means.
Before the marriage, there is always the courtship, the boyfriend/girlfriend phase, and then eventually there is the ‘living together’ phase. This is a modern phase which is now accepted as a norm in some societies. The couple who wish to make a go of the relationship always think of living together first as a time to getting to know each other, if the two are suited for each other.
After the marriage and the troubles begin, most couples whine about not knowing who their spouse were who they were married to. This is a travesty really, after all that time together is it really possible that things like personality quirks never even surfaced in the getting to know phase?
There is no logic for anyone saying that they either did not know who their spouses were before the marriage, neither is there logic that what could be lived with during the time of getting to know each other now could no longer be tolerated.
Stop fooling yourself, you married only one person and that is your spouse and you need to think of how can i save my marriage best. Face the music and stop finding excuses for yourself. Think about saving the marriage instead because somewhere out there, reality is, the love and the respect are still there.
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